For Sarah

Yeah, well, first things first. Sarah...you definitely need to add a guestbook or a way for ppl to send comment directly to your blog or email from your blog page because you write things that I cannot help but want to comment on and I guess I could send and email but it'd be cool if you had a guestbook. I can get you one if you want me too...email me (compulsivwriter6@airpost.net).

As to that...you are a bright, talent, sensitive, beautiful person and if being with Cody isn't what makes you happy anymore then it isn't what you need. I know there isn't really anyone else at home that you could see yourself dating right now, but maybe you don't have to be dating someone. Guys are just...guys...they come, they go, they shouldn't change who you are. And who you are is beautiful. I feel literally blessed to know you, to know a person as sweet and (what's the opposite of cynical?) as you are. I don't know why God blessed me by giving me a friend like you. By all logic we shouldn't like one another (I'm nothing if not cynical and you're sweetness and light itself, lol). But I know you have the strength to move past anything God chooses to put in your path. He really doesn't give us heavier burdens than we can handle.

Happy B-day by the way! (Yeah, I forgot until the 13th, then I procrastinated and now I'm looking for your present...see another example of how different we are...you'd already have something fabulous and artsy done and in the mail!) My advice...cry hard (sounds like you've already done that)...talk to friends...listen to really loud music...alternately watch romantic comedies and independent women movies...give yourself a makeover...and move on! And remember, there are tons of ppl who love and support you.

Love ya bunches, Katie